Monday, November 4, 2013

Did You Get Consent?


Before any sexual act the people involved must make an agreement or give consent. It is important to take note that consent can be revoked by either participant at any point during the act. If someone revokes consent the act should stop immediately.
Not getting consent or refusing to stop once someone revokes consent can result in legal trouble. Below are some rules concerning consent that should be followed to avoid the loss of freedom, scholarships, and the opportunity to pursue a higher education and certain jobs in the future:
1.     Both people are fully conscious
v  Anyone under the influence of alcohol and other drugs (whether prescribed or recreational) cannot legally give consent to any sexual act.
2.     Both people must be free to walk away at anytime
v  Holding someone down or using other force to make someone perform sexual acts is illegal. Both people should be free from restraint if they choose to revoke their consent.
3.     Both people are sincere in their desires
v  Both people should give an enthusiastic yes with the absence of drugs and alcohol. Anything other than an enthusiastic yes should be taken as a no.
4.     The intent of both people is clear
v  Manipulating someone into performing sexual acts is not okay. Giving gifts, paying for dinner, or doing other kind gestures does not mean someone is owed sexual favors in return.
If you have questions or would like to talk with someone, please contact your Residence Director or the Women’s Resource and Interpersonal Violence Prevention Center.
The Women’s Resource and Interpersonal Violence Prevention Center staff serve as advocates for KSU students (men and women) who are victims of sexual violence. Students can call 770-794-7858 to make an appointment.

- Shameka Wilson, Director of Women's Resource and Interpersonal Violence Prevention Center

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